ʻAʻole i maʻalahi ka noiʻana no nā mea inoa e like me kou manaʻo
ʻO ka mea āu iʻikeʻole ai, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonui i ka helu o nā inoa e loaʻa iāʻoe, e hoʻonui nui ana i kāu kumu kūʻai, ma ka hanaʻana i kahi mea maʻalahi - e aʻo ai pehea e noi ai i nā mea e koho.
ʻIkeʻoe, no kēlā me kēia kumu,ʻaʻole nui nā poʻeʻoihana liʻiliʻi e pilikia me nā mea i kapaʻia. Mahalo paha lākou i kā lākou mea kūʻai e hele i ka'ōlelo maikaʻi a pili iā lākou.
Loaʻa paha iā lākou ka noiʻana i nā mea e hōʻoluʻoluʻole. Manaʻo lākou e loaʻa nā mea hoʻopuka,ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā,ʻaʻole lākou e kānalua i kekahi mea e pili ana i ia mea. No laila, i ka pauʻana o ka hana, hele wale lākou, me ka haʻaleleʻana i ka hapalua o kā lākouʻaina ma ka pā.
Ma kekahiʻaoʻao o ka papaʻaina, pono ka manaʻo o ka mea kūʻai - aʻaʻohe o lākou e pili ana i ke kōkuaʻana i ka hoʻouluʻana i kāuʻoihana a i loaʻa iāʻoe nā mea'ē aʻe . Akā, manaʻoʻoe ua hana maikaʻiʻoe a uaʻoluʻolu ka mea kūʻai i kāu hana,ʻaʻoleʻo lākou makemakeʻole e kōkua iāʻoe i waho; ʻaʻole loa ia e komo i loko o ko lākou mau manaʻo ... keʻoleʻoe e noi iā lākou.
Makemakeʻoe e loaʻa nā mea'ē aʻe? A laila e hoʻokaʻawale i kāu kānalua a hoʻoikaika iāʻoe iho e lilo i ka maʻamau o ka noiʻana i kahi mea e hāʻawi mai ana mai kēlā me kēia mea kūʻai.
Pehea e noi ai i nā mea e kohoʻia: E hōʻalo i kou hopohopo e noi
- E hoʻomanaʻo i ka hapanui o nā kānaka e kōkua i nā poʻe'ē aʻe (ināʻaʻole he kumu kūpono iā lākou).
- Hoʻomaopopo iāʻoe ihoʻo ka meaʻoi loa i hiki ke loaʻa,ʻo ia ka'ōlelo a ka mea kūʻai, "ʻAʻole". ʻAʻole weliweli nui,ʻo ia?
- E noi e noi i kahi mahele o kāu papahana papahana. Me ka nui o nā papahana, aia kahi hālāwai hope loa me ka mea kūʻai , kahi manawa kūpono e noi ai i kahi mea hoʻopuka.
E hoʻohana i kahi palapala e noi ai i kahi mea e hāʻawi aku
Ma ka liʻiliʻi a hiki i ka noiʻana i kahi mea hoʻolaha ua lilo i mea maʻamau noʻoe a uaʻoluʻoluʻoe e noi.
E hoʻomanaʻo,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hana i ka'ōleloʻoluʻolu a Oscar maʻaneʻi.
Ke noiʻoe i kahi mea kuhikuhi, eʻoiaʻiʻo a pololei. E haʻi i kekahi mea e like me,
"Ke hauʻoli loa nei au no kouʻoluʻolu i kaʻu hana, mahalo loa wau ināʻoe e kāpae i koʻu inoa me kekahi mea'ē aʻe āu iʻike ai e pili ana i ______________ (e hanaʻoe). E haʻalele au i kēia mau mea. nā kālekaʻokoʻa'ē aʻe meʻoe? "
ʻO ka haʻaleleʻana i nā kālekaʻoi aku me kahi kanaka e maʻalahi iā lākou no ka hāʻawiʻana i kou inoa a me kaʻike pilikino i kahi'ē aʻe.
ʻO kekahiʻano'ē aʻe ma kēia palapala eʻoi aʻe ke kikoo a noi i nā inoa i ka wā e noi neiʻoe no nā mea kuhikuhi. Eia kekahi lā, hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo:
"Ke hauʻoli nei au no kouʻoluʻolu i kaʻu hana. Keʻimi mau nei au i nā inoa a me ka hana pilikino inā eʻikeʻoe i kekahi mea'ē aʻe e makemake ana iā _______ (ʻo kāu hana)."
E kali maanei aʻike i kā lākou mea e'ōlelo ai. E hāʻawi kekahi poʻe i kekahi mau inoa. E'ōlelo kekahi, "Ae, paha," aʻaʻole hoʻi e hāʻawi i kekahiʻike hou. E'ōlelo mai kekahi, "ʻAʻole", akā i ho'āʻo loaʻoe.
Inā hāʻawi lākou i nā inoa, e kākau i nā inoa ma lalo a nīnau i ke kanaka inā noʻonoʻo lākou ināʻoe e hoʻopili pololei aku i nā kānaka a inā paha inā makemake lākou e hāʻawi i kāuʻike ma o lākou iho. Ināʻaʻole lākou e hāʻawi inoa, e like me ka mea i noi muaʻia no ka hōʻailona kākau, e noi iāʻoe inā hiki iāʻoe ke waiho i kekahi kālekaʻoi aku me lākou e hiki ai iā lākou ke hele i kahi.
Nā kōkua no ke noiʻana i nā Kūkā
- Pono e nīnauʻia nā kūkā no ke alo. ʻAʻole wale ka mahalo nui o kāu mea kūʻai akāʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. E hiki i nā kānaka ke hana i kekahi mea no kekahi mea'ē aʻe inā kū pololei ke kanaka i mua o lākou. (Uaʻaeʻia e noi aku i nā mea i hoʻounaʻia e ka leka uila a iʻole kelepona inā e hana anaʻoe ma lalo o nā kūlana kahi e kūʻole ai i nā hālāwai a me nā maka. aina.)
- Inā hiki, hiki iāʻoe ke noi no kahi mea e hāʻawi i ka manawa e hāʻawi ai i kahi bila.
- ʻO ka manawa āu e noi nei no nā mea hoʻolaha, he wā kūpono loa ia e noi aku ai i ka mea kūʻai no ka hōʻike , he hōʻailona kākau liʻiliʻi o kāu hui a me kāu hana paha e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻohana ma kāu pūnaewele inā loaʻa iāʻoe kekahi a ma kāu kālepa'ē aʻe nā mea e like me nā puke. (Mai manaʻoʻoe i kekahi e kākau i kahi hōʻike iāʻoe ma kahi o ka pahu, a waiho iā lākou i kahi kālepa pepa a mea paha e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻohana a noi iā lākou e leka uila iāʻoe.)
ʻO ka nui o kāu noiʻana i nā mea e koho i ka nui o kāu loaʻa
Mai wehe i kou hilahila a hopohopo paha i keʻano e kūkulu ai i kāuʻoihana. Nā mea i hāʻawiʻia e loaʻa iāʻoe nā mea kūʻai aku. A me nā inoa eʻoi aku ana i noiʻia eʻoe,ʻo ka nui o nā mea āu e loaʻa ai -ʻoiai no kaʻikeʻana o ka mea kūʻai i kāu makemake i kekahi. He meaʻuʻuku ia no ka uku nui.