Nā Manaʻo Kūkākūkā vs. Nā Kaumaha Hana

Ma o ka kauʻana i kou mau ikaika, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoikaika i kāu hana (a me ka kālā)

ʻO ka hoʻolālāʻana e pili ana i kaʻikeʻana i nā nāwaliwali a me ka "hoʻonohonoho" iā lākou, ma muli o kaʻike maoli. Akā, pono anei iāʻoe ke "hoʻoponopono" i kēlā mauʻano nāwaliwali? ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole pono iāʻoe!

ʻO ka manaʻo maʻamau, aia nō iā kākou a pau nā ikaika a me nā nāwaliwali, akā,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole. ʻO kā mākou waiwai,ʻo ia nā makana maoli a me nā meaʻaiʻole, a he mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i kēiaʻano likeʻole me nā ikaika a me nā nāwaliwali.

ʻO nā talente kūlohelohe kēia mau mana i loaʻa iā mākou ma muli o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka hoʻoholoʻana o ko mākou mau manaʻo. ʻAʻole lākou i aʻoʻia ma ka heluheluʻana i kekahi puke aiʻole e lawe i kekahi papa. ʻO ia keʻano o kā mākou hoʻohanaʻana i kēia mau koina kūlohelohe a iʻole nā ​​mana e hoʻoholo ai inā loaʻa iā mākou ikaika a me nāwaliwali kūpono .

ʻElua Mau Manaʻoʻoʻoleʻa

E noʻonoʻo e like me kēia:ʻO nā makana a me nā haʻawina likeʻole e like me nā pahuʻelua. ʻO ka pahu mua kahi makana (kēia kālena ) a hele mai nā mea a pau i kāweleʻia me ke kakaka. ʻO ka pahuʻelua (ʻaʻole i ke tālena), akā, he meaʻole wale nō ka pilikia. E noʻonoʻo e like me kā Pandora pahu. Ma waho o ka pahuhopu o ka pahu,ʻo kēlā me kēia pahu wale nō kahi i loaʻa.

ʻO ka pahu # 1 wale nō ka maikaʻi , aʻo ka pahu # 2 wale nō ka meaʻino . ʻAʻohe mea e hana a hiki i kou weheʻana i nā pahu. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e wehe i Box # 1,ʻaʻoleʻoe e loaʻa i ka makana i loko. Pēlā, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e wehe i Box # 2,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻeha i nā hopena.

Hana like nā makana a me nā taleniʻole i keʻano like. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e hilinai i kāu mau taleni, a laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike i nā mana i loko. Eia kekahi, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e hilinaʻi i kāu mau waihona kālā, a laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hāʻawi i ka nawaliwali i loaʻa iāʻoe i kekahi mea.

Ke noi nei iāʻoe iho

Hiki iāʻoe ke mālama i kēia mana i kāu hanaʻana iāʻoe iho. I ka manawa āu i hana ai i kēia loli i kaʻike,ʻikeʻoe e loaʻa ana nā nāwaliwali i loaʻa wale no kāu hanaʻana iā lākou (ma kaʻaeʻana i kou lanakila e hilinaʻi iā lākou). Ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo e hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻololi i kahi nawaliwali ma ka weheʻana i kēlā hilinaʻiʻana -ʻo ia kaʻaoʻao hoʻohauʻoli.

Hoʻomaopopo nā mea kōkua i kūpono i kēia. Uaʻike lākouʻo lākou wale nō ka mea e hopohopo ai inā loaʻa iā lākou nā pono mai nā ikaika aiʻole nā ​​pilikia. ʻAʻole hiki i kahi mea kōkua kūpono ke hoʻolimalima i ko lākou manawa e ho'āʻo ai e "hoʻololi" i kahi nāwaliwali. Akā, keʻoluʻolu nei lākouʻaʻole i hilinaʻi ka holomuaʻana ma muli o kā lākou mau makanaʻole. Inā he mea pono e hana, hoʻopuka lākou i ka mea.

No laila peheaʻoe e hōʻoia aiʻaʻoleʻoe e hana i nā nāwaliwali? Ponoʻoe e hoʻokumu i kahi kuleana noʻoe iho e hilinaʻi nui ana i kou mau ikaika kūlohelohe ma keʻano he kūkākūkā, a ma muli o kou hikiʻole i kou mau nāwaliwali. E hāʻawi i kahi noʻonoʻo i nā lawelawe āu e hoʻolako ai aʻike i keʻano e hoʻopili ai i kāu maulena pono'ī a me kāu mau taleni. E nīnau iāʻoe iho ināʻoe e hana nei i kahi nawaliwali ma ka hanaʻana pēlā.

Ma keʻano he kūkākūkā, he kūlana kūlanaʻoleʻoe e hana i ka hana kūpono noʻoe iho. Hoʻokahi ka mea e hoʻonui i ka hilinaʻiʻana i kāu mau taleni kūpono, a hoʻemi i ka hilinaʻiʻana i nā mea nele i nā taleni. E hoʻomanaʻo wale, ke mālama neiʻoe i ka hanaʻana i nā nāwaliwali a me nā ikaika,ʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe.